Thursday, November 5, 2020

True Story Of A Tortured Soul!

 

He was a hugely successful professional, who had built up a company from scratch and was running it efficiently for several years. Everything was picture perfect. With good growth generating huge profit, he was enjoying life like never before.

Then, suddenly, business started shrinking and, over a period of one year, he lost everything that he had earned and invested till that time. It happened, when the great recession of 2008 swallowed uncountable small businesses all over the world.

Cash flow came to a grinding halt, obviously destroying the business set up that he had established with so much love and care, and, finally, one fine morning, he found himself in a debt trap amounting to several millions Rupess with no source of income.

Desperate, about to give up, Sandip got in touch with me to help him find out what went wrong and also to explore if there is a possibility of getting out of that mess.

Subsequently, I had a few joint introspection sessions with him, going over the details of what had happened, analyzing why it happened and, finally, trying to find out the root cause of his unexpected destruction of professional life.

My findings were as mentioned below:

1. Riding the wave of success, he developed a thought process that he was invincible and success would continue kissing his feet, in this line of business, forever.

2. To expand further, he, instead of focusing on his core area of operations, shifted his attention to an unknown territory and burnt his fingers over a period of time.

3. Instead of balancing out between the existing field of operation and the new terrain of business, he neglected the former while pursuing the latter.

4. In his existing business, he happened to be heavily dependent on a few clients and never bothered to add more.

5. At the same time he was going through a major crisis in his personal life, distracting his attention needed to run business successfully.

All these above factors, added up, created an ideal platform for total collapse and landed him in a situation he could never think of.

While working out a rescue package for him, some of the suggestions that came to my mind were:

1. Look at success on daily basis and never lose momentum of growth for a minute even.

2. Expand your business, but mostly in one's core area of competence.

3. While handling a few different types of assignments, one must balance the time that's required to be invested in each.

4. Never keep all the eggs in one basket. Clients diversity is one of the most important factors that decides the fate of any business. Never be too dependent on a single client.

5. Develop sufficient mental strength to withstand the impact of relationship fall-out. Do your best to make things work out, but if that doesn't produce the desired results -either just move on, or compromise with no regret.

Although he didn't admit to me, but I could make out that the root cause of his downfall: Losing momentum, perhaps lied in his personal problems. So, at last, I told him to accept the reality of life and change his own thought processes to get aligned with what's unlikely to change.

I told him that there is no point in repenting over what had happened -- it makes no sense in wasting your time looking for a solution that doesn't exist. The most practical approach is to accept, live, and put in your best efforts for making a turn around out of whatever you already have in your life.

My concluding suggestion to him was: Sooner you realize, better it is, that, life doesn't give everything to everyone. Wise people accept this fact and live that reality, without wasting their mental energy on blaming others for their sufferings.
 
Almost on the verge of committing suicide when he had met me first, a year and half ago, today I find him cheerful and full of hopes for making the best out of whatever life has given him.

And yes, in professional life also, despite buried from the neck down in huge debts, he is completely focused on turning it around and with a determination that I haven't seen in him earlier. I'm sure, very soon he will make it happen again.

P.S: It's a decade old story. These days, I am not in touch with Sandip. 

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