Tuesday, January 7, 2025
How Miracle Happened In My Life
Saturday, December 28, 2024
Why Are You So Tensed All The Time?
Wednesday, May 1, 2024
The Power Of Love And Hardwork
The sun had long set, casting a shadow over the home of the Sharma family. Inside, Deepika Sharma sat at the small kitchen table, staring blankly at kitchen utensils in front of her.
Her husband Anant was out looking for work again, leaving her alone with their three young children.
Sharmas had always been a hardworking family, but lately, they had been struggling to make ends meet.
Anant had lost his job at a auto component manufacturing factory a few months ago, and despite his best efforts, he hadn't been able to find steady employment.
Tuesday, April 30, 2024
Confession Of An Entrepreneur
Friday, April 19, 2024
Ravi's Battle Against Destiny's Torture
Ravi's life has never been easy. From a young age, he has faced challenges that seemed insurmountable. Born into a broken home, Ravi never knew the love and care of both parents.
His father struggled with addiction, leaving to fend for himself most of the time. As a result, he grew up quickly, taking on responsibilities far beyond his years.
Despite his difficult upbringing, Ravi was determined to make something of himself. He excelled in school, earning top grades and scholarships to prestigious universities.
But just as he was about to embark on his journey to a brighter future, tragedy struck. A car accident claimed the lives of both his parents, leaving Ravi completely alone in the world.
Thursday, April 18, 2024
The True Power Comes From Within
Not so long ago, in a small village nestled in the lush green valleys of the Himalayas, lived a young boy named Mihir.
Mihir was a dreamer, always fascinated by the majestic mountains that surrounded his village.
He would often spend hours gazing at the snow-capped peaks, imagining all the adventures that awaited him beyond the village.
Mihir's family was poor, and opportunities for education and career advancement were scarce in the village. But Mihir was undeterred.
He was determined to break free from the constraints of his circumstances and make something of himself.
And so, he turned to his greatest source of inspiration - his grandmother.
Mihir's grandmother, Tulsi, was a wise and kind soul. She had seen her fair share of struggles and hardships in life, but her spirit remained unbroken.
Tulsi was a firm believer in the power of perseverance and self-belief. She would often tell Mihir that the only limits in life are the ones we place on ourselves.
One day, as Mihir sat with his grandmother overlooking the valley, she told him a story.
It was a tale of a young prince who was born into a kingdom plagued by darkness and despair.
The prince grew up surrounded by doubt and fear, but he harbored a deep yearning for something more, something greater.
One day, the prince decided to embark on a quest to find the source of light that would banish the darkness from his kingdom.
He traveled far and wide, facing numerous challenges and obstacles along the way.
But he never wavered in his determination, for he knew that within him lay the power to overcome any adversity.
Finally, after a long and arduous journey, the prince reached the mystical city of light.
There, he discovered that the source of light was not an external force, but his own indomitable spirit.
The prince realized that true power comes from within, and that he possessed the strength and courage to bring about change in his kingdom.
As Tulsi finished the story, she looked into Mihir's eyes and said, "My dear child, you are like that young prince. You have the power to illuminate the darkest corners of your life with the light of your own dreams and aspirations. Do not let anyone or anything dim the brightness of your spirit."
Mihir was deeply moved by his grandmother's words. He felt a newfound sense of purpose and determination burning within him.
He realized that his dreams were not just distant fantasies, but achievable goals that he could strive towards with unwavering faith and resilience.
From that day on, Mihir dedicated himself to his studies and personal growth.
He devoured books on a wide range of subjects, eager to expand his knowledge and broaden his horizons.
He took on odd jobs in the village to save money for further education, determined to carve out a path for himself that would lead to a brighter future.
Years passed, and Mihir's hard work and perseverance paid off. He earned a scholarship to study at a prestigious university in Delhi, where he excelled in his academics and extracurricular activities.
His passion for learning and his unwavering commitment to his goals inspired those around him, and he became a source of inspiration for the younger generations in his village.
Today, Mihir is a successful entrepreneur, running his own business that supports sustainable development projects in rural communities.
He often returns to his village, where he shares his story with the children and encourages them to dream big and never give up on their aspirations.
And as he stands on the mountain-top, overlooking the valley that was once his home, Mihir knows that the true source of inspiration and motivation lies within each of us - waiting to be ignited by the fire of our dreams and nurtured by the unwavering belief in our own potential.
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The Hope!
The foundation of our existence is HOPE. Hope is the Engine of Life that helps us keep moving toward our destination. Perseverance, Persistence, Patience, talk about anything, all are fundamentally influenced and governed by hope for a better future in every domain of life.
If there is no hope, there is nothing in life. If there is no hope, we cease to exist. When hope dies, we too die. May be physically, or emotionally, or both.
So, keep the hope alive even in the worst situation. All I have written in this book is about my own experience with regard to inability to give up. This book is a collection of articles I have written, while going through the worst period of life.
Some of the articles are true stories and the rest are the expression of thoughts and ideas coming to my mind. Navigating the dark cloud of Destiny's Torture, I started inspiring myself through writing these article. It was a kind of self-talk to save me from the pains and agonies of life and remain hopeful about a great future.
Hope is a positive cognitive state based on a sense of successful goal-directed determination and planning to meet those goals. Goddess Elpis in Greek Mythology is the spirit of HOPE.
Clearly indicating that Hope Helps Us Keep Going, a relevant article from "The Psychology Today," highlights:
"Research indicates that hope can help us manage stress and anxiety and cope with adversity. It contributes to our well-being and happiness and motivates positive action. Hopeful people believe they can influence their goals, that their efforts can have a positive impact. They are also more likely to make healthy choices to eat better or exercise, or do the other things that will help them move toward what they are hoping for."
So we must never let the hope disappear from life, even when stuck up in the dark tunnel of life. Hope keeps us alive and it is nothing but the flame of a better future in all domains of life.
Highlighting that "Hope is more than wishful thinking. It’s a blend of optimism and willpower," a write up in "PsychCentral" Calls attention to:
"High-hope people fare better in several areas of life. According to Snyder’s hope theory, higher levels of hope are consistently linked to better outcomes regarding mental health, physical health, academics, athletics, physical health, and psychotherapy."
However, at the same time, to make our hope come true we have to unleash massive actions towards achieving whatever our goals are. The goals could be anything. Materialistic and or Spiritual. Whatever those are, we can achieve the same with a combination of Hope and Hard-work.
The purpose of this book is to motivate them who have lost Hope, or in the process of giving up the same in life. Hope is the foundation of living a meaningful life and an existence full of happiness.
PS: From my book "Elpis - The Hope," available on Amazon. It's obtainable in both paperback and Kindle softcopy format. Please click on the following link: https://www.amazon.in/dp/B0BSV1P1ZF
Photo by Torsten Dettlaff
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Build Your Life Again From The Bottom!
An amazing book I had finished reading yesterday at one go: "Dopamine Detox." It is written by Meurisse Thibaut.
The conclusion of the book, as summarized by the author, is as follows:When you learn to avoid highly stimulating activities that destroy your ability to remain calm and focused, you’ll find yourself capable of tackling your major tasks with more ease than ever before.
Going through a dopamine detox will help you lower your level of stimulation and ensure you work on your major tasks.
Remember that excitement and fulfillment aren’t the same things.
As you learn to eliminate external stimulations and immerse yourself in your work, hobbies, or relationships, you’ll experience a deeper sense of fulfillment and will feel much better.
You will also end up becoming far more productive and accomplishing many of your goals and dreams.
So, stop letting your environment hijack your brain and regain control of it instead.
This is the key to a healthy and productive life."
Today morning I uninstalled/disabled FB, Instagram, Netflix, Hotstar, Zee5, Amazon Prime on my phone, left all groups on WhatsApp except one and silenced every single one of the notifications.
However, relaxation being important, I do access them sometime at the end of my daily work schedule on my personal Laptop only.
You will be surprised to know that there is no TV in my house. So, the deadliest source of distractions doesn't exist.
To conclude: Let me tell you, it has been a great distraction free day so far and I am determined to continue with the same strategy for a long time.
Monday, March 20, 2023
Hope Is The Engine Of Life
Tuesday, March 30, 2021
A Man of Action!
Sunday, January 17, 2021
Live Life At Full Potential!
Monday, January 4, 2021
How Criticism Made Me A Better Version Of Myself!
Frankly speaking, I had a great disliking for English during the formative years of life and never attempted to make any improvement even. I used to be so poor in spoken English, that, during my Engineering college days, I had always avoided mixing up with English speaking classmates.
Well, destiny had something else in mind for me. After passing out from the college, when I failed to write a job application in English, leading to a group of friends laughing at me in front of many others, I, for several hours, wept uncontrollably, but then, I decided to do something about it.
On that day, before falling asleep, I vowed to myself that I must learn to speak and write in English within three months to give those friends a fitting reply. First step in that direction was to subscribe to an English news paper, and then, I bought a Bengali-to-English dictionary.
For the next 3 months, without fail, I continued with a tireless effort of investing several hours a day on reading English newspapers, writing down the meaning of each and every word that I couldn’t understand and, finally, made every attempt to improve my ability to speak in English by talking to the wall of my bedroom for several hours.
It was a lonely fight with no help from any living being. But, I continued. My determination and efforts begun producing visible results, adding fuel to my endeavor for improving more and more. During those 3 months, I didn’t let anyone get a hint of what I had been after. Then, one fine morning, I offered to write the job application for one of my friends.
I still clearly remember his facial expression while reacting to my proposal with a sarcastic comment. Ignoring. However, I went ahead and tried my best to design an impacting cover letter and showed him the draft. One by one, all three of them read it and looked at my face with shear disbelief. And, at that point, I dropped another bombshell by initiating a verbal communication in English. They were stunned!
The desire to give a fitting reply to my friends’ neglect, motivated me to achieve something difficult if not impossible. Their criticism, instead of demotivating me, inspired me to look upon this obstacle as a challenge to overcome, and I did it.
The mission was accomplished and that success laid the foundation of a never-give-up attitude in life, which, since then, has remained with me up until now, and I wish, it remains, forever, as an integral part of my life.
Two and decades later, when I wrote my first article in late 2008 and published it on LinkedIn, one of the readers made a categorical statement that instead of wasting my time and energy on such attempts, I should go for fishing. It was like getting completely stripped down before a huge audience, as his comment was read by hundreds of renowned professionals from all over the world.
I agree that there were quite a few grammatical mistakes in that article. However, instead of pointing it out publicly, he could have let me know his observation privately. That’s how a civilized society is expected to function. But he decided otherwise, and it ultimately proved to be a blessing in disguise for me!
I don’t know what made him launch such a lethal but unusual attack on me, but I didn’t give up this time also. Apart from taking up a week-long grammar lesson from my elder daughter to improve my writing skills, I stayed focused on reading lots of articles from dozens of popular websites and kept posting more and more on my blog and on LinkedIn.
After a couple of months, the same person, who suggested fishing a better option than writing, became my 1st degree connection on LinkedIn and wrote a mail to me appreciating my improvements. Well, I must mention that he apologized to me as well.
Both these developments, in addition to a lot more that I’d share with you later, made my life worth living a thousand times. I must thank God for being so kind to me at times, and also ruthless - whenever I fail to live up-to his expectations on several occasions - perhaps inspiring me to wake up the sleeping giant within.
So, whenever someone laughs at you, whenever someone writes you off, saying that you’re no good, never retreat to a state of deep hibernation but bounce back with a vengeance to prove them wrong. People would always criticize you, jokingly or genuinely, whenever there’s an opportunity, but, you must turn it to your advantage, genuinely.
Friday, January 1, 2021
Are You A Survivor Or A Warrior?
Thursday, December 31, 2020
Are You Capable of Controlling Your Anger?
Why people get so angry in normal condition also?
Just went out to a shop for getting some print out. Since there was a formatting involved, I requested him to do so and agreed to pay him for the same.
He got annoyed and started firing me, saying what do I think of him. Is he working for money.
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I kept on saying sorry for few minutes, even though I didn't say anything offensive. He continued for 4/5 minutes and finally calmed down.
Out of curiosity, I tried to find out what was wrong with him and came to know that there is an issue in his family for which he was frustrated.
We must have control over our emotions, in every situation, and I am thinking to suggest him the book "The Four Agreements" to learn how to control the same - the way I started doing after reading that book.
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Be The Knowledge Leader!
While surfing through photos posted on social media, you will notice that the image of an individual is integrated with the back ground of expensive Cars, Golf Course, 7 Star Hotel Restaurant etc - an inherent desire in every human to show off that s/he is better placed than many.
This is called Brand Dependence. More expensive and royal the brands are in the perception of our society, more valuable we think ourselves are.
Our own identity is identified with and defined by the brands we are using and attached with.
Our own values and ethics are determined by the reputation of the brands we are in possession of or integrated with.
I wouldn't denounce this established norms and practice prevalent in modern human society.
In fact I would appreciate it, only if, while being associated with those great brands - we gather knowledge and work smart to establish ourselves as valuable brands in terms of learning and sharing knowledge with others.
I am not talking about typical Film Stars and conventional Political Leaders; I am talking about who contribute great creativity to the humanity in every domain of life: Knowledge Leaders.
Let us develop our knowledge and skills to such an extent that we don't require the assistance of any brand to enhance our own branding.
Be the knowledge leader!
TweetTuesday, December 22, 2020
Why You Must Question Your Belief System!
Sunday, November 29, 2020
Change Your Feelings, Change Your Life!
Change Your Feelings, Change Your Life!
We always think that our thoughts influence our actions. But there is a catch!
Imagine a situation: you have received a regret mail about the outcome of an interview you attended yesterday.
It went off so well, in your opinion. You are more than confident of cracking it.
However, the mail cites that you don't match the expectations of the interviewing panel.
It's over!
What is your emotional state of mind at that point in time?
You are feeling low, frustrated, depressed. I mean, you are in a negative state of feelings.
Thoughts coming to your mind now are influenced by your negative feelings; so are the actions you perform at this moment.
Are your thoughts determining the quality of your actions?
No, it's your feelings.
So we must have control over our feelings for generating good thoughts.
Isn' it?
How to change our feelings to generate positive thoughts for unleasing result-oriented actions?
Let me tell you what I do in such situations.
I start doing something I love to do, enjoy doing and get immense pleasure out of it - Cooking or Writing!
After sometime, I feel positive, energized and gain control over my state of feelings.
Whenever you feel low, do that, whatever you love to do, and change the way you feel.
TweetSunday, November 15, 2020
Walk Alone, Don't Be Scared!
1. It's better to walk alone, than with a crowd going in the wrong direction! By Diane Grant
2. The soul that sees beauty may sometimes walk alone! By Johann Wolfgang von Goethe
3. Walk on, walk on with hope in your heart, and you'll never walk alone, you'll never walk alone! By Oscar Hammerstein II
4. The woman who follows the crowd will usually go no further than the crowd. The woman who walks alone is likely to find herself in places no one has ever been before! By Albert Einstein
5. Imagine you are walking down a leafy path...The sun is receding, and you are walking alone, caressed by the breezy light of the late afternoon. Then suddenly, you feel a large drop on your right arm. Is it raining? You look up. The sky is still deceptively sunny...seconds later another drop. Then, with the sun still perched in the sky, you are drenched in a shower of rain. This is how memories invade me, abruptly and unexpectedly! By Azar Nafisi
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If You Want Success, Go Get It! Wake Up The Beast Inside!
If you want success, go get it! If you want recognition, work your ass off to achieve it. Remember, no body will hand you over anything. You have to do it yourself.
Don't throw excuses for not being able to do it. Don't blame situation for your failure. Don't hold others responsible for your messed up life.
Wake up! Stop lying to yourself! And the only way to do so is to embrace the truth. The truth is, You have the knowledge and skills to make it happen in life in a big way.
You can't achieve anything stupendous in life without accepting a huge challenge. You can't taste success in life without taking huge risk. Anything huge on one side of the coin "Life" has a twin on the other side.
Awaken the sleeping giant within, fight it out with all that strength and determination you have and go get it. Yes, you can make it. Yes, you can realize your dream. Yes, you can reach the summit of success.
Wake Up The Beast Inside!
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