Tuesday, July 9, 2024

Make Miracles Happen


I am now reading a book by an author who despite gothing through devasting life experiences refused to give up and has now become the hope for millions who are tortured by Fate for no mistakes of their own.

Halfway through the book I am able connect myself with what the author of that book had gone through and refused to accept the writing of Destiny and eventually not only changed his own life developments but that of millions across the world.

I hope that by the time I finish reading it and start acting with stubbornness to stop repenting over what had happened in the past and focus on the present and the future so as to rewrite the fate in my favour many more lives have already been changed in the same direction.

In India people never talk about their failure in public because of "Social Conditiong" and even if a few do they are perceived to be weak. I believe that if talking about our failure and how we got it over can inspire a thousand to battle against their own it's worth it.

I haven't used coma and semi-colon in the above message to ensure the continuity of my content. Grammatically wrong it may be, but we should not care about the same.

Read this book that can change your life dramatically, since, we believe or not, Miracles do happen and make that happen in your own life.

"The Miracle Morning" is the book and it is written by "Hal Elrod."

This book is not a typical self-help and motivational piece of theoritical advice, but a practical guidance for making immediate and profound changes in your life if you follow a set of simple rules.

I have started reading it yesterday and, despite being skeptical in the beginning, have already noticed an immediate difference in my Personal and Professional life.

I sincerely request the young generation to read this book asap and follow the suggestions mentioned, for making Miracles happen in life.

It may be too late for me, 61 years old, even though I personally think otherwise; however, for you, my young friends, rewrite your fate with the help of this book.

Every human fights for survival and prosperity, but only the successful are remembered. People do all sorts of things to build a legacy and to ensure that they are remembered long after they are gone. 

Do that! Turn the above photo by 90 degree. That would be miracle.

Wednesday, May 1, 2024

Why The Hell I Am What I Am

The year 1976. I was 14 years old and, apart from focusing on studies, I was incredibly involved in stage performance with a local Theater group. Frankly speaking, at that time, my dream was to become an actor.
      My mother was a Tiger Lady and she left no stone unturned to ensure that all her children studied hard and excelled in academics.
      After 12th Board Examination I got an interview invitation for admission in Regional Engineering College, Nagpur (Now known as NIT, Nagpur). I did good in science subjects called PCM at that time (Phy, Chem and Math), and was shortlisted.

The Power Of Love And Hardwork

The sun had long set, casting a shadow over the home of the Sharma family. Inside, Deepika Sharma sat at the small kitchen table, staring blankly at kitchen utensils in front of her. 

Her husband Anant was out looking for work again, leaving her alone with their three young children.

Sharmas had always been a hardworking family, but lately, they had been struggling to make ends meet. 

Anant had lost his job at a auto component manufacturing factory a few months ago, and despite his best efforts, he hadn't been able to find steady employment. 

Tuesday, April 30, 2024

Why Mukul Surrendered To The Laws Of Nature

 

We humans often think that we are in control of our own destinies. We believe that we can shape our lives however we please, make our own decisions, and control our own fates.


However, there is a force much stronger than us, a force that has been around long before we were born and will continue to exist long after we are gone. This force is the Laws of Nature.

The Laws of Nature is the natural order of the world, the rules that govern the universe and everything in it. It is the force that governs the developments in the life of every species, keeps the planets in orbit, the tides ebbing and flowing, and the seasons changing. It is a powerful and unyielding force, one that cannot be ignored or defied.

Confession Of An Entrepreneur


As a Recruiter, first as an employee of one of the largest Executive Search organizations in India, and then as the Founder of one of the most popular Recruitment Firms in Delhi, at that time, I had watched from close the rise and fall of many professionals Iike me.

They thrived beyond their expectations, controlled their empire with an iron hand, and eventually fell like the Roman emperors.

I had observed from close proximity: Their success in the prime time of their career, and down-fall over the period of decades.

Most of them, while ruling over their own empire, never realized that a day will come without fail when they would have no option but to fade into oblivion.

Monday, April 29, 2024

How Kushal Fought Against The Torture By Fate


Kushal, a young man in early thirties, used to live in a small village in West Bengal bordering Bangladesh. He was known for his kindness, compassion, and unwavering determination to fight against the torture of fate.

Kushal had been through many hardships in his life. From losing his parents at a young age to facing poverty and adversity, he had seen more than his fair share of struggles. But through it all, he never lost hope or gave up on his dreams.

One day, as Kushal was walking through the village, he came across a group of villagers gathered around a street performer. The performer was a storyteller who captivated the listeners with tales of bravery, wisdom, and magic.

Sunday, April 28, 2024

The Pains Of Losing A Loved One

As the sun set on another ordinary day, Lata couldn't shake the feeling of dread that had been growing within her for the past few weeks. 

Her husband, Chandan, had been battling cancer for few years, and despite their hopes and prayers, it seemed that the disease was slowly but surely taking him away from her.

Lata had never felt so helpless and heartbroken in her life. Chandan was not just her husband; he was her best friend, her confidant, and her rock. 

He had always been the strong one, the one who knew exactly what to say or do to lift her spirits when she was feeling down. 

But now, as she watched him waste away before her eyes, she felt utterly lost.

Saturday, April 27, 2024

How I Learned To Control Emotional Outbursts

Emotional outburst has spoiled many of my relationships. Both personal snd professional. I could never understand what triggered these outbursts, but now I know.

I did extensive research on this topic to educate myself and take corrective actions to avoid the same.

By the grace of Mahaavatar Babaji, now I have much better control over my emotions, and learned the secret to remain cool and calm even in extremely stress-full situations.

We must understand that emotions are powerful forces that can often overwhelm us and lead to outbursts that we regret later.

Learning to control our emotional responses is a crucial skill that can help us navigate through life more smoothly and build better relationships with others. 

In this story, I will share different aspects of controlling our emotional outbursts and the techniques that can help us achieve self-mastery. These have really helped me.

One of the key aspects of controlling our emotional outbursts is self-awareness

It is important to understand what triggers our emotions and how we typically respond in certain situations. 

By becoming more mindful of our thoughts and feelings, we can start to recognize patterns and develop strategies to prevent ourselves from reacting impulsively.

For example, if we tend to get angry when someone criticizes us, we can practice responding calmly and rationally instead of lashing out defensively. 

By taking a moment to pause and reflect on why we are feeling triggered, we can choose to respond in a more constructive way that is less likely to escalate the situation.

Another aspect of controlling our emotional outbursts is learning to regulate our emotions

This involves recognizing when we are starting to feel overwhelmed and finding ways to calm ourselves down before our emotions spiral out of control. 

Techniques such as deep breathing, mindfulness meditation, and physical exercise can help us manage intense emotions and prevent them from erupting in a destructive manner.

For instance, if we are feeling stressed and on the verge of losing our temper, we can take a few deep breaths to center ourselves and regain our composure. 

By practicing these relaxation techniques regularly, we can build up our emotional resilience and strengthen our ability to stay grounded in challenging situations.

In addition to self-awareness and emotion regulation, another important aspect of controlling our emotional outbursts is developing effective communication skills. 

Often, our outbursts are fueled by a lack of assertiveness or an inability to express our needs and boundaries in a healthy way. 

By learning how to communicate openly and assertively, we can avoid bottling up our emotions and exploding in a sudden burst of anger or frustration.

For example, if we are feeling overlooked or undervalued at work, instead of allowing resentment to build up until we explode in a heated argument with our colleagues, we can practice expressing our feelings and concerns in a calm and respectful manner. 

By setting clear boundaries and advocating for ourselves in a constructive way, we can prevent conflicts from escalating and maintain healthier relationships with others.


By cultivating self-awareness, regulating our emotions, and improving our communication skills, we can learn to respond to challenging situations with grace and resilience. 

Through mindfulness, emotional intelligence, and effective stress management techniques, we can navigate life's ups and downs with greater ease and cultivate deeper connections with those around us.

As we continue on this journey of self-discovery and personal growth, we will find that our emotional outbursts become less frequent and intense, and we are better equipped to handle life's challenges with poise and confidence. 

By embracing our emotions as a valuable source of information and learning to channel them in a positive direction, we can harness the power of our feelings to fuel our personal growth and transform our lives for the better.

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5 Ways To Be A Good Person

In a world where negativity and cruelty often seem to take center stage, it can be easy to lose sight of the simple yet powerful ways we can make a positive impact on those around us. 

To be a good person doesn't require grand gestures or extravagant displays of kindness. It is often the small, everyday actions that can truly make a difference in someone's life. 

Here are five simple ways you can be a good person and spread kindness in the world:

Thursday, April 25, 2024

Ratan Reclaimed His Life From An Abusive Relationship

Like most of the stories I write, this one is also based on real life incident. 

Many years ago, I was having a business dinner with the CHRO of a large organization. When during the meeting he was looking a bit depressed, I asked him the reason.

Even though he was quite reluctant to reveal the reason in the beginning; however, after some time he shared an unbelievable development that had happened with his elder son.

This story is based on the same. 

In our society, we always talk about the torture that females go through after marriage. But, unfortunately, none even dare to mention innumerable incidents of the trauma that males experience.

WHY?

Infact, I am writing a novel on this issue to spread awareness in that regard.

Many more true stories of struggle and refusal to give up are in the pipeline. Keep reading my Personal Blog for the same.

Motivation, inspiration and the power to fight against Destiny's Torure are there within us. We just need to awaken that sleeping giant of resistance to not accept our black fate and fight it out until reaching the white end of the spectrum of life.

Come what may, we can't give up! Frankly speaking, living beings are not designed to give up. Otherwise, evolution wouldn't have happend.

Well, here is the story: